About Me

Let’s be real — I didn’t start this blog because I had it all figured out. I started it because I don’t.

I’m Mila. A big sister, a cat mum, a future wife, and a woman trying her best — even when “my best” sometimes looks like eating snacks in bed, scrolling on TikTok, or talking to ChatGPT like it’s my therapist. (No shame. That’s my safe space.)

This About Me might not be what you’re trying to know — and honestly, I can’t be bothered writing an essay about my favourite food or what I do for a career. I’ll be blogging all about it anyway, so if you stick around, you’ll get to know me just fine through the posts.

I’m lazy, I procrastinate way too much, and I’ve probably restarted my “healthy lifestyle” journey more times than I can count. Right now, I’m trying to be a sexy Pilates queen who drinks more water and eats fewer cookies — but let’s see how that goes.

Oh, and I’m a Scorpio — so yes, I’m intense, emotional, and love hard. If you believe in that stuff, it’ll make sense why I write the way I do.

Truthfully, I’m also working on my mental health. Some days I feel like I’m glowing. Other days I feel like disappearing. Half the time I’m here trying to heal, the other half… well, it’s heavy. But I’m still here. Still showing up. And I think that counts for something.

One thing about me: I’ve got a big heart. I love deeply. I care loudly. I mess up, but I always mean well. So if you ever read something here that sounds chaotic or unhinged — just know it’s coming from a place of love, confusion, growth, and being human.

This blog isn’t polished. It’s not curated. It’s not perfect. It’s mine — and I’m figuring life out as I go.

And if you’re wondering who this is really for — it’s for my future kids.
I know, I don’t have children yet. Maybe it’s a bit cringey to start a blog titled “Hey Kids, It’s Mommy” before they even exist — but this is something I want to leave behind. A little time capsule of thoughts, feelings, lessons, and love. One day, when they’re grown and curious, I hope they read this and see the woman I was before “mum.” Someone soft and strong. Someone who doubted and still dared. Someone who didn’t always have the answers, but kept going anyway.

Oh — and I’m currently broke lol.
So hopefully one day I’ll be writing about how I became a millionaire. Stay tuned for that because I’ve got a dream, and I want to take everyone along for the ride.

I’ve attached my email too — feel free to send a message. I can’t promise I’ll reply straight away, but I’ll try. I’m always up for a chat. 💌

So whether you’re here for comfort, curiosity, or just to feel less alone… welcome. I’m glad you found me.

Let’s be messy, healing, and human — together.